Adonis: The Prince of Beauty, Tragedy, and Blooming Life (Even in Death!)
Alright folks, settle in, grab a cuppa, because we’re about to dive deep into the fascinating world of Greek mythology, specifically the story of Adonis. Now, if you’re hanging out at The Pagan Club, chances are mythology and those enchanting old gods are right up your street. And trust me, Adonis is one figure you’re going to want to get to know.
He’s not just a pretty face (though, let’s be honest, that’s a big part of the story!), he’s a figure brimming with symbolism, tragedy, and a surprising amount of relevance to pagan paths today.
So, who is Adonis? Well, in a nutshell, he’s the Greek god (or hero, depending on who you ask) of beauty, desire, and vegetation. Think of him as the poster boy for springtime gorgeousness mixed with a hefty dose of heartbreaking drama. His story is one of love, loss, and the cyclical rhythms of nature – themes that will probably resonate with anyone drawn to paganism.

Where Did This Beautiful Chap Come From? The Mystery of Adonis’s Birth
Like many figures in mythology, Adonis’s origin story is a bit… well, complicated. There isn’t one single, tidy narrative. Different authors and regions seemed to have slightly different takes on how he popped into existence. But the most well-known version, the one that really sticks with you (and is, frankly, rather bonkers), involves incest and a whole lot of myrrh.
Brace yourselves, here we go: According to the Roman poet Ovid, and others, Adonis was the son of Myrrha (also known as Smyrna) and her own father, King Cinyras of Cyprus (or sometimes Theias, depending on the version).
Yep, you read that right. Incest. Not exactly starting us off light-heartedly, are we? Apparently, Myrrha, thanks to the meddling of Aphrodite (goddess of love and beauty, irony alert!), developed a rather strong infatuation with her dad. She tricked him into sleeping with her for several nights in disguise. When Cinyras finally realised what had happened, in a fit of rage, he chased Myrrha with a sword.
Now, this is where the gods step in to make things even more dramatic (as they do!). Myrrha, horrified and remorseful, prayed to the gods for help. They, in their divine wisdom (ahem), decided the best solution was to turn her into a myrrh tree. Yes, the fragrant resin kind of tree.
And get this, according to Greek mythology, Adonis was born from this myrrh tree, after Cinyras, still distraught, shot an arrow into the tree which caused it to split open. Talk about a dramatic entrance!
Other Origin Stories
Other versions are a tad less… intense. Some say his mother was a goddess named Alphesiboea or even just a mortal queen of Cyprus. But the Myrrha story is the most prevalent and certainly the most memorable, even if it’s a bit… much. It definitely sets the stage for a life filled with drama, doesn’t it?
Aphrodite Falls Hard (and So Does Persephone)
Okay, so Adonis is born, smelling faintly of myrrh and with a backstory that’s already in soap opera territory. He grows up to be, unsurprisingly, incredibly beautiful. Seriously, like, stop-traffic, jaw-dropping beautiful. And this is where our main players come back into the scene: Aphrodite and Persephone.
Aphrodite, as goddess of love and beauty herself, is famously smitten with Adonis. In some versions, she accidentally pricked herself with one of Eros‘s (Cupid’s) arrows of love while playing with her son and, seeing Adonis, fell instantly and deeply in love.
His looks and youthful vigour totally captivated her. She spent all her time with him, hunting in the forests, sharing adventures, basically utterly besotted. Think lovesick teenager, but, you know, a powerful goddess.
The Queen of the Underworld’s Captivation
Things never stay simple in mythology, do they? While Aphrodite was busy enjoying her Adonis-centric world, she entrusted the infant Adonis to Persephone, Queen of the Underworld, to look after him for a bit.
Persephone, as you might remember, is no stranger to being taken against her will and spending time in a less-than-sunny locale. But when Persephone saw Adonis, his beauty utterly charmed her too.
Now, here’s the stickler: When Aphrodite came back to collect Adonis, Persephone refused to give him back! She’d grown quite attached and wanted to keep him in the Underworld with her. Cue a divine dispute, a proper goddess-on-goddess showdown!
Zeus, being the go-to peacemaker (when he wasn’t causing trouble himself!), had to intervene. He decided on a compromise: Adonis would spend one-third of the year in the Underworld with Persephone, one-third with Aphrodite, and the final third wherever he pleased.
This arrangement is deeply symbolic, linking Adonis with the cycle of seasons. His time with Persephone in the dark Underworld represents winter and dormancy. His return to Aphrodite and the world above symbolises spring and the vibrant resurgence of life. Clever, eh? Mythology often is!
The Boar and the Blood-Red Flower: Tragedy Strikes
So, Adonis is living this rather wonderful life, splitting his time between the realms of love and death, enjoying the best of both worlds (literally!). But, as with many beautiful and beloved figures in mythology, tragedy was lurking. And in Adonis’s case, it came in the form of a wild boar.
The reasons for the boar’s attack on Adonis are debated in Greek mythology. Some legends say Artemis, the powerful goddess of the hunt, sent the wild animal in a fit of jealousy. This jealousy could stem from Aphrodite’s infatuation with Adonis leading to her neglecting Artemis’s worship, or perhaps because Adonis dared to claim he was a better hunter than the goddess herself.
Other versions suggest it was Ares (god of war), Aphrodite’s sometimes-lover, in a jealous rage because Aphrodite was so fixated on Adonis. Still others say it was simply fate, a tragic accident waiting to happen.
Whatever the reason, while Adonis was out hunting (a pursuit he was very fond of), a wild boar attacked him. In the most common version, the boar gored him in the thigh or groin with its tusks. The wild boar fatally wounded poor Adonis.
Aphrodite, hearing his cries or sensing his distress, rushed to his side. She arrived too late. Adonis died in her arms, his beautiful blood staining the earth. Heartbroken, Aphrodite mourned his loss with profound grief.
But even in tragedy, there’s a hint of beauty and continuation. According to the myth, from Adonis’s blood, sprang forth the anemone flower, a beautiful, short-lived bloom that is said to be blood-red. In some versions, Aphrodite also sprinkled nectar onto his blood, and from that sprang the rose.
So, even in death, Adonis’s beauty and essence transformed into something beautiful and lasting, albeit ephemeral – just like life itself.
Adonis and the Cycle of Life, Death, and Rebirth in Greek Mythology
Adonis’s story is more than just a tragic romance. It deeply intertwines with the themes of life, death, and rebirth, reflecting the natural cycles of the world around us. His dual association with Aphrodite and Persephone, life and the Underworld, embodies this duality.
Consider how Adonis’s death and resurrection (in a symbolic sense, through the anemone) link to the changing seasons. His descent to the Underworld is like the dormancy of winter when vegetation dies back. His return to the surface, to Aphrodite’s realm, is akin to spring when life bursts forth again, fresh and vibrant.
The Adonia festivals of ancient Greece, dedicated to Adonis, directly reflected these themes. Women often celebrated the Adonia, and these celebrations involved symbolic mourning for Adonis’s death, followed by rejoicing at his “rebirth” or return.
Further highlighting the emotional impact of Adonis’s story, the Adonis River (now known as the Abraham River) in Lebanon was said to turn red with blood each year during the festival. This dramatic phenomenon was believed to be a direct consequence of the mourning for the fallen god, a powerful testament to the depth of feeling associated with his myth.
Rituals of the Adonia
A key part of the Adonia involved creating “Gardens of Adonis.” People often planted fast-growing seeds like wheat or barley in these small pots or baskets, forcing them to sprout quickly, only to wither and die rapidly under the summer sun.
These ephemeral gardens symbolized the short-lived beauty of youth and the fleeting nature of life, directly mirroring Adonis’s own story. People often placed them on rooftops in the sun, representing the heat that brings life but also withers it.
These festivals weren’t just about sadness though. They were about acknowledging the cyclical nature of life and death, the sorrow of loss, and the joy of renewal. They were a way of connecting with the rhythms of nature and understanding our place within them.
Adonis in Modern Paganism and Beyond
So, why should we care about Adonis from Greek mythology today? Why is he relevant to modern paganism? Well, for a few reasons:
- Nature and the Seasons: Adonis is a powerful embodiment of the cycle of the seasons, the ebb and flow of life and death. For pagans who connect deeply with nature and its cycles, Adonis offers a powerful figure to focus on, especially during seasonal celebrations, particularly those marking the return of spring.
- Beauty and Love: As the god of beauty and desire, Adonis reminds us to appreciate the beauty around us, both in the natural world and in human form. He connects us to the power of love and passion, but also acknowledges its fragility and potential for sorrow. This resonates with many pagan paths that honor beauty and the sacredness of desire.
- The Acceptance of Mortality: Adonis’s tragic death and the symbolism of the anemone remind us of our own mortality. But it also shows us that even in death, there can be beauty and transformation. This is a powerful lesson in acceptance and finding beauty even in the face of loss, a theme often explored in pagan spiritual practices.
- Feminine Mysteries: The Adonia festivals were largely women’s rituals. Adonis, in some ways, is a figure associated with feminine mysteries, grief, and the power of female love and mourning. For those exploring feminine-centred spirituality, Adonis offers a unique lens.

Beyond the Pagan Path
Even beyond paganism, Adonis’s name and story resonate. The word “adonis” itself has become synonymous with a beautiful young man. He appears in art, literature, and even popular culture. His story continues to captivate and inspire, reminding us of the enduring power of myth and the timeless themes it explores.
So, there you have it – a slightly whirlwind tour through the world of Adonis in Greek mythology! More than just a pretty face, this Greek god is a complex figure embodying beauty, tragedy, and the cyclical nature of life and death.
Next time you see an anemone blooming in spring, or feel the shift from winter to summer, perhaps you’ll spare a thought for Adonis – the prince of beauty, who even in death, continues to bloom. And maybe, just maybe, consider planting your own little “Garden of Adonis” – a reminder of the fleeting beauty and enduring cycles of life, death, and rebirth. Happy exploring!